It can be heady stuff when the likes of The New York Times, National Public Radio and CNN call to ask about your new ministry for stories that will receive national play.

But for two pastors with Presbyterian Peace Fellowship, the Revs. Emily Brewer and Deanna Hollas, the increased media attention gives Presbyterians working to prevent gun violence “a really big microphone,” as Hollas puts it.

For nearly 15 years, a certificate has hung on a sparsely occupied bulletin board on the back wall in the sanctuary of Laguna United Presbyterian Church in Casa Blanca, New Mexico. For the only Native American congregation in Santa Fe Presbytery, this now-faded certificate represented much more than a tradition or achievement. Every time they walked by it, it was a reminder of their congregation’s commitment to participate in the life of the church — a church that spans beyond their Casa Blanca community.

As I write, there are reports of yet another school shooting. The refrain “I never thought this would happen here” has become a mantra on the evening news. The circle of those experiencing trauma — or knowing someone who has — widens daily.

Civility is easy when we’re in our comfort zone, but civility becomes more challenging as we move away from that easy place. But that’s what we need to do — and there’s a way to do it.